8 Things I Wish I Had Learned 5 Years Ago
1️⃣ Authenticity Over Approval
Chasing validation from others is exhausting and unfulfilling. The more I embraced my true self, the more I attracted the right opportunities and people into my life. Owning my quirks and passions became my superpower.
2️⃣ Action Creates Clarity
Waiting for the perfect moment kept me stuck. Perfection is a myth, but progress is real. Every step forward, even the messy ones, revealed the next move, and got me excited! Starting before I felt ready was the game-changer. Best advice I’ve ever received: Just start!
3️⃣ Every Voice Deserves to Be Heard
For too long, I played small, afraid to take up space. Once I found my voice and started sharing my ideas, I realized that confidence isn’t about knowing everything—it’s about trusting myself. This is why I founded 88 Creative: to help others find their voice and then amplify it.
4️⃣ Dreams Don’t Chase You Back
No one is coming to hand me my dream life—I had to go after it. I stopped waiting for permission and started taking bold steps. Fear is part of the journey, but regret is worse.
5️⃣ Failure is Data, Not Defeat
Every setback taught me something I couldn’t have learned any other way. Reframing failure as feedback transformed my mindset. Growth happens in the uncomfortable moments. Speaking of which …
6️⃣ Discomfort is the Price of Growth
Every major breakthrough came after I stepped outside my comfort zone and putting myself out there. The fear of looking foolish held me back for too long. Now, I embrace the awkward, the uncertain, and the scary—it’s where transformation happens and when I truly come alive!
7️⃣ Approval is a Moving Target
Agonizing over meeting others’ approval and expectations kept me stuck, constantly second-guessing myself. I’ve learned that true freedom comes from letting go of the need to please everyone, trusting that my best is better than I give myself credit for, and choosing to live in alignment with my own values instead.
8️⃣ Life is Too Short for “Meh”
Mediocrity isn’t the goal. I want passion, excitement, and adventure! And lots of it! Choosing joy, seeking meaningful experiences, and surrounding myself with inspiring creative people changed everything.
These lessons didn’t come easy, but they are helping me find success. If you’re standing where I once was—wondering when the right time will come—let this be your sign. The time is now.